Planting Hope Project

Request a Tree

We are thrilled to hear of your interest in receiving a tree as part of the Friends for the Journey “Planting Hope” project and honoring someone who has been abused as a child by a member of the clergy, or by anyone else.
 

As a clergy sexual abuse survivor led ministry, Friends for the Journey believes that there is hope for those who have experienced abuse to receive support from our Catholic community, and, in cases of clergy abuse, to receive acknowledgement from the Church that did not protect them. God desires all to live an abundant life in a manner that honors past experiences, and we’d like to join you on your journey toward a more abundant life.

 

Whether you yourself experienced child sexual abuse, you are a family member or friend of someone who has, or you have felt called to advocate and show your love and support for those who have been affected by this abuse, we want to thank you for your participation.
 
Please take a few moments to read through the information below about the Planting Hope process. Then let us know which the tree you’d like to plant and contemplate who you’d like to dedicate that tree to. 
 
May the Lord guide you and honor your desire to remember and lift up someone harmed by past abuse.  We look forward to you joining our efforts to bring hope to others through this and other projects of Friends for the Journey.

List of Trees

Planting Hope was created by Friends of the Journey as a way that members of our San Diego community can show solidarity with one another and share a vision of recognition, validation, and unity with the members of our community who have been abused, as well as their families and friends. This is done through an outreach gift of a living tree selected by the recipient and dedicated in a brief ceremony to a loved one who was abused.
 
The trees we’ve selected to offer members of our community were chosen for their symbolic meanings, as well as their ability to thrive here in our San Diego area climates.  They can be planted in the ground or transplanted into a pot provided by the recipient.
 
View list of trees curently available below:

Fruit Trees

Ornamental Trees

Shade Trees

Tree Request Form

Now that you've been introduced to the various trees we'd like to Plant Hope with you with, please take some time to prayerfully discern your options and then fill in the information below.

Name(Required)
I would like to request the following tree (Please note: if trees have multiple color options I will not get to pick the specific color variety)(Required)
My tree will be transplanted into another container (that I provide)(Required)
I want to plant my tree in the ground(Required)

Considerations before you plant a lifelong tree:

I own my home and have consulted with my spouse or other people who co-own the home with me and have permission to plant this tree(Required)
I agree to call 211 prior to digging to ensure that I am not digging up gas lines or water lines.(Required)
I am renting and have obtained a letter from my landlord giving me permission to plant this tree.(Required)
I would like Friends for the Journey to help me dig the hole for this tree(Required)

Planting Dates

When are you most available to plant your tree? Weekends are most common. We will call you to schedule the best date and time.
I would like more information about ways to join and/or supporting Friends for the Journey in Planting Hope.(Required)

Supporting Friends for the Journey

Thank you for your interest in supporting Friends for the Journey! We are a ministry of survivors of clergy abuse and other supportive Catholic community members. Please consider coming alongside us helping to ensure that Planting Hope continues to spread the Hope, Love, and Support of our Catholic community to those who have been devastated by the trauma of child sexual abuse that no human being should have to experience.
Do you want to stay in touch with Friends for the Journey?(Required)
Do you know a survivor who may be interested in participating in Planting Hope?(Required)

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About the Coat of Arms

Bishop Pulido’s coat of arms is divided into four quarters with wavy horizontal lines from top to bottom. The blue and white lines represent the Blessed Virgin Mary. They also suggest water, which alludes to Jesus washing the feet of His disciples and to the waters of baptism. The red and gold lines represent the Holy Spirit and fire. The colors also can be seen as referring to the Blood that (along with water) poured from Jesus’ side at His crucifixion, as well as to the bread (gold) and wine (red) transformed into the Eucharist. At the center is a roundel featuring a symbolic representation of the “mandatum” (washing of the feet), which he believes exemplifies service to all humanity. The roundel’s outer edge is a line composed of small humps; it is borrowed from the coat of arms of the Diocese of Yakima, where Bishop Pulido served as a priest before being named a bishop.

About the Coat of Arms

Bishop Pham’s coat of arms depicts a red boat on a blue ocean, which is crisscrossed by diagonal lines suggesting a fisherman’s net. This symbolizes his ministry as a “fisher of men,” as well as how his own father had been a fisherman. The boat is also a symbol of the Church, which is often referred to as the “barque of Peter.” At the center of the sail is a red beehive (a symbol of the bishop’s baptismal patron saint, St. John Chrysostom, who was known as a “honey-tongued” preacher). The beehive is surrounded by two green palm branches (an ancient symbol of martyrdom; the bishop’s ancestors were among Vietnam’s first martyrs). The eight red tongues of fire around the boat are a symbol of the Holy Spirit and a representation of the diversity of ethnic and cultural communities. The red of the boat, the beehive and the tongues of fire allude to the blood of the martyrs.

About the Coat of Arms

The coat of arms combines symbols that reflect Bishop Bejarano’s spiritual life and priestly ministry. The main part of the shield shows four wavy vertical lines on a gold background. These represent flowing waters. This alludes to his chosen motto and also symbolizes the graces that come from the Divine life to quench our thirst for God. The upper third of the shield is red because it is borrowed from the coat of arms of the Order of Mercy, of which the Bishop’s patron saint, Raymond Nonnatus, was a member. The central symbol resembles a monstrance because St. Raymond is often depicted holding one. The Eucharist is Bishop Bejarano’s inspiration for his vocation. It was through the Eucharist that he received his call to the priesthood at age seven and which keeps his faith and his ministry going. It represents the call to offer oneself as a living sacrifice. The monstrance is flanked on either side by an image of the Sacred Heart, alluding to the mercy of God and echoing the idea of a sacrificial offering of oneself united to the sacrifice of Christ, and of a rose for Our Lady. It is an allusion to Our Lady of Guadalupe, patroness of the Americas, and highlights the bishop’s Hispanic heritage.

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